Graduation Invitation Wording Graduation Invitation Wording-"no Really, You Don't Have To Come..."?

Graduation invitation wording-"no really, you don't have to come..."? - graduation invitation wording

I am about to graduate with a doctorate, and I have a few family members who want to live on an ad or send an invitation, but far and some of them students --

- That's what I mean, but in a classic and elegant --

"Hey, I was a student, you need to come and there is no need to send me something, I want about you and you wanted a heads-up"